Call me conservative or even not open-minded enough, but everyone couldn’t deny the fact that teenage girls are not like what they are used to be years ago. To me personally, I received a culture shock seeing how much these girls are different these days. Maybe being in a all-boys school for 5 years could explain this reaction.
Seriously, back then when I was in a secondary school, things were quite the contrary. Girls were still shy and they tend to take care of their manners and judgement. Even my crush at that time was very polite and nice to everyone. I know it may sound crazy and as if I was living in the yesteryears but one fact still remain undeniable, these girls are getting more and more weirder and wild.
My perception about these girls still remains the same until I moved on to a JC. Damn…all this while I thought that those girls would like someone to understand them and their feelings and to always be there for them. I assume that they most certainly don’t like to talk dirty with other guys and preferred to be appeared as nice, sweet , pretty or cute rather than sexy, promiscuous or hot. Once again, I was wrong. They were totally opposite to what I perceived them to be.
Oh well….what can I do? It’s not as if I want to control them and how they want to be. But…one question still lingers in my mind. Was my perception also wrong about her? Is she who I perceived her to be…a sweet, nice and pretty girl? Frankly speaking, I don’t have a clue. It is for her to decide her image she wants to potray to others, including me.
Seriously, back then when I was in a secondary school, things were quite the contrary. Girls were still shy and they tend to take care of their manners and judgement. Even my crush at that time was very polite and nice to everyone. I know it may sound crazy and as if I was living in the yesteryears but one fact still remain undeniable, these girls are getting more and more weirder and wild.
My perception about these girls still remains the same until I moved on to a JC. Damn…all this while I thought that those girls would like someone to understand them and their feelings and to always be there for them. I assume that they most certainly don’t like to talk dirty with other guys and preferred to be appeared as nice, sweet , pretty or cute rather than sexy, promiscuous or hot. Once again, I was wrong. They were totally opposite to what I perceived them to be.
Oh well….what can I do? It’s not as if I want to control them and how they want to be. But…one question still lingers in my mind. Was my perception also wrong about her? Is she who I perceived her to be…a sweet, nice and pretty girl? Frankly speaking, I don’t have a clue. It is for her to decide her image she wants to potray to others, including me.
