Someone once told me... it's funny that the person that we are destined with is living somewhere in this world, walking on the same Earth together with us. It's just that we have not realise who they are yet. Destiny is something that is already fixed and there's nothing we can do about it. We can only plan and choose...but the final decision still remains in the hands of God. We can force to "destined ourselves" with ones we choose to love but the consequences could be detrimental. However, this is something that is really hard to see when love blinds our eyes. It is undeniable that love is a really nice feeling; the warm fuzzy feeling inside that makes you stumble on your words, skip a heartbeat and keeps you occupied with the image of their smile and laughter on your mind all day.
Love has always been closely related to destiny. Remembering the first time you felt love and all the mistakes that sometimes goes along with it in the end makes you realise...Had I never met her in the first place, would I be feeling better in the first place? It is through experience that we learn from these mistakes and hope that we will find the better one for us in the future. It is clear that love, emotions and feelings are issues that are not as simplistic as it seems. We are not able to totally eradicate this feeling..this love that we once felt with them. Somehow they still do live in our memory and we wished that things would worked out better back then. No matter how hard we try to forget them, we would still have a tinge of feelings left for them.
Somehow, We all know deep down inside that we have to keep moving on for the ones we love. Regardless that the problem lies with you or her that it had turned into a meltdown, you have to go on with life. Let this instead be an experience and lesson for us as we go on with our lives. To me, at times its better to be anonymous...to hide the feelings and love you have for someone just to preserve to friendship that you've build up with them. If they are destined for you, somehow you will end up with them in the end. If you love someone so much, let them go; if she's your destiny, she'll come back to you.<3
1 week has passed so fast. Soon the holidays will be over and the pressure starts kicking in. Apart from that, the occurrences that happened yesterday gets me deep into thought. Faith and belief is a very complicated issue. Like what a writer once quote...you can't argue for and against a statement of faith. It is universally agreed that almost everyone has some form of belief in a creator or God, although there are some skeptics who believe otherwise such as Darwinism and the evolution of mankind from primates.
Other than that endless argument of who may or may not be right, the point that I want to discuss is the fact that faith and religion is needed in our lives. To me, it becomes the foundation of my strength, perseverance and determination. It is in religion that we find the peace of mind from all the confusion and hectic life of this world. It is also in that idea that our God is fully able and will help us in times of needs and desperation. Anything can happen even in the last second...reminding us that destiny is already in the hands of God and that we should never give up on Him, just as much as we hope that He does not give up on us.
However, this is where the true test would come.It would be really idealistic to claim all of what I said if all of our life's situation is simple, easy and full of happiness. It is clear that this is outrageously not true. It is in these difficulties and times of darkness that our faith is challenged. Sometimes, doing something which is right in the middle of all the wrongdoings around you sets a stage of a battle and dilemma within your heart. We are always confronted with the decision to do what it right...and what is easy. At this crossroads, we are challenged to the right thing with the hope that everything will turn out well in the end...even we are facing the toughest of adversities right now.
At the end of the day, everyone is reserved to their own opinions and arguments. To me however, it brought me back to the words uttered by my teacher yesterday...Life and faith never clashes with each other, it complements each other instead. It may be hard for me or you to see it now but the signs are there. It is clearly tough but this is the road we have no other choice but to endure through.Never give up on that hope..that faith that the good things you are doing will have its rewards in the future. It is the future,the endgame that matters. What matters isn't the present...as it will also turn into our past, a past we will soon forget...
Someone once told me... it's funny that the person that we are destined with is living somewhere in this world, walking on the same Earth together with us. It's just that we have not realise who they are yet. Destiny is something that is already fixed and there's nothing we can do about it. We can only plan and choose...but the final decision still remains in the hands of God. We can force to "destined ourselves" with ones we choose to love but the consequences could be detrimental. However, this is something that is really hard to see when love blinds our eyes. It is undeniable that love is a really nice feeling; the warm fuzzy feeling inside that makes you stumble on your words, skip a heartbeat and keeps you occupied with the image of their smile and laughter on your mind all day.